having hobbies

I am looking at returning to school. It would be for music (remember, bard here), but I know it will take time and dedication. As I am writing this, I am looking forward to conducting a piece or two with a volunteer band in 2024. Studying a score, to me, is like building a story. As a closet writer, some of these stories come easily, others take a bit more work.

Learning the music and its chord progressions builds the plot and theme of the piece. Conducting a group to play it is much like pulling readers into the book, making the characters come to life. I have to be aware of my body posture and facial expressions as I lead the group into the feelings I want portrayed, all while showing dynamics and articulation. It can be quite a balancing act as I show the musical side without letting the musicians get lost.

I say this because I want you to know I am not just a gamer. RPG is not my life, and it should not be yours either. Take time to enjoy other hobbies, whether it be crafting, music, writing, travel, or even volunteer work. Allowing yourself to fall into things where you find enjoyment aids in your own self awareness. I have become a more well rounded individual through my involvement in volunteer bands, family, church, sewing, and even at my computer as I write.

Not only that, it gives you experiences to draw from when building campaign scenarios or NPCs that the players will encounter. Give yourself time to interact with the real world around you, encounter new faces, visit new places, read a book, listen to a podcast…you might just find your next great campaign.