starting new

Every group starts somewhere. From someone gathering friends to try a “new” type of game to complete strangers meeting in a local game store (or online) because they are looking for new friends to play with, each table top is surrounded by people who chose to be there. What happens in those early steps?

Showing up at a store (or online) and sitting down at a table is the easy part for those who are looking for a group. After sitting down, it becomes a bit more difficult. You begin to interact with these strangers and decide if this is the table for you. I’ll be honest, some you’ll like immediately, others…not so much. Don’t take it personally, it is different for everybody.

Gathering friends to start playing seems the more tiresome task when starting a home game. Getting commitment from others can feel like beating your head against a wall at times, but don’t give up. Eventually you’ll nail down a date and time for all to sit at your table. Run the game, get feedback (especially from the ones that tried it for the first time), and set the next date.

Honestly, getting a regular time to meet is the best option. This allows for the players to plan in advance and keep their schedule clear if possible. Things will come up and they will have to miss a session here or there, but if it becomes consistent, you may want to give them a call.

Whether you play with strangers that are yet to become friends, or a group of friends at home, don’t give up after just one session. It takes a little while to get to know each other and become comfortable in roleplaying. Each time you try, you will learn more about yourself and be able to pick the right game for you.